It's been another whirlwind of a year here in the Herridge/Houchin household. We have had more ups and downs than a bloody theme park ride but somehow we have made it to the end of December and to the start of a fresh new year.
I love reading these sorts of posts, reflecting is one of my favourite things to do. I don't dwell and I don't have regrets I just like to review my journey and work out how on earth I got to where I am today.
In the world of motherhood, this year has been a challenge to say the least! Harry hit two and a half and suddenly all hell broke loose. It's safe to say the threenage era came a little early and we were experiencing all the tears and tantrums.
He has gone from the prefect sleeper to the all night raver and we still aren't any closer to potty training. However Harry's speech has come on leaps and bounds, he chats away but finally he's forming words and sentences that actually make sense. He is so close to his peers now that it's hard to believe her spent 14 months in a world of silence. He is so god damn funny, his little quirks make me giggle, however devilish he can be
In 2015 my best friend (also known as my fiancé Scott) had a life threatening brain tumour, had surgery to remove it and then spent 7 weeks back and forth from hospital every day to have radiotherapy. In fact we spent last Christmas Eve, New Years Eve and even New Year's Day there for him to have his treatment. BUT it was all bloody worth it wasn't it.. because he has only gone and had 3 scans which have all been crystal clear - most definitely the absolute best news to come out of 2016.
I hope he knows how proud I am of him. To be diagnosed with such an awful thing at 35 just isn't fair, but he was a hero and you really wouldn't have a clue what his body has been through now.
And little old me.. I almost lost my life to an ruptured ectopic pregnancy at the beginning of the year but I'm still here to tell the tale.
I then spent an entire blurry summer with my sister in and out of hospitals caring for our very sick dad and fighting the NHS for his right to treatment.
But I had so so many highs to compensate for those crazy heartbreaking times. I saw the QUEEN aka Britney and had one of the best nights ever! I travelled more this year than ever before. I went to Morocco for my beautiful friends hen party. Visited Santorini for a toddler free break, and it was the most stunning place I have ever been. Then of course hopped to Paris with my love who finally asked me the question I have been dying to hear. Getting engaged was a huge huge highlight of 2016.
I also pushed myself waaaaaay out of my comfort zone and put myself in front of the camera again. Believe it or not I cannot stand public speaking and that's how vlogging feels to me at the moment. However I am really proud of myself for jumping in at the deep end and becoming part of a YouTube network called Channel Mum. After almost joining and backing out twice before, I was shocked when they got in touch again and asked if I was ready to be a part of their tribe.. and this time I said yes and I'm so glad I did! I've met a real great group of gals whom I can actually call my friends and not just in the online sense.
I've never really had goals as such for my blog and channel, I guess I still really don't. I just want to create content that's informative but enjoyable to watch, I have this overwhelming sense of wanting to share all my experiences in the hope that someone out there finds comfort knowing they aren't alone.
Things I have learnt this year….
- It's OK not to be the perfect Pinterest mum
- I really need my sleep.
- Chocolate bribery is essential
- Threenagers are WAY harder than terrible twos
- It's OK to sometimes think that your child is a bit of a dick
- Friendship isn't about who you've known the longest
- My mum tribe is awesome
- Soft play sucks
- I can't run
So another weird year of super highs and mega lows for us, but I guess that's just life. I've learnt yet again that I am strong and to make every day count.
Sure there are things I want to achieve, I want to fill my empty picture frames, get semi-fit, drink more spinach and all that but I'm not really one to make big plans or resolutions. I just want to enjoy life and the normal'ness of it. I want to have way more PJ days. I want to meet new friends and squeeze the ones I already have much much more.
Happy New Year, I hope 2017 is kind to you. I say stop focusing on life's big plan and live a little. Make mistakes, have crap days but learn from them. Enjoy the little things
Ta rah 2016, you're the year that was full of surprises.